Isn't it funny what we manifest? Or what we focus on? I dated plenty of nice guys, and plenty of mean ones, but they all seemed to have high expectations, like ta da my father. Then I thought today everyone in my dad's life are pretty much bums, when he pushed us not only to get jobs, but successful careers. Okay Dad. Let me get one right away no problem. I was just thinking about that. So he has demands but no one can fufill them, he attracts bums into his life, and I attract mote people like him. I believe if we change the way we look at things, the things we look at will change.